Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Many Firsts


I have to confess this pregnancy has been and I am sure will continue to be so different then the others. I attribute it to the 'fact' that I am having a baby girl. (fingers crossed) As I have sat and pondered this pregnancy and as the days go by and new symptoms appear I can't help but notice the differences.
I have had serious morning sickness with this baby. I have tried to get off the meds and I pay for that in the morning, so I have resigned myself to taking meds until birth-day.
I have NO bladder control with this pregnancy. I have to change at least once a day because I wasn't quick enough to cross my legs as a sneeze or cough came on. I can't tell you how frustrating it is to be all dressed and fresh and almost out the door when "a- achoo" hits, I am running to the bathroom and fishing for new underclothes. I am sooooooo over that!
I am quite, oh how shall we say this tactfully, "Randy Baby" Yes I must confess this time around I am actually in the mood. I don't know why ( 0f course my husband is wonderful and handsome) but he was with the other two also and at that time me and sex didn't go together. This is one first my hubby is happy, happy about!
Now this next one just appeared about 3 days ago. As I am sitting down for what feels like the first time that day, I ask my husband to pull off my socks because I can't really reach them. So when I glance down at my badly in need of a pedicure feet I realize I have NO ankle. My husband kindly refers to my tree stumps as 'kankles' I don't know what it means, I am sure it's rude though. Anyway I have swollen feet and calves. It has been 3 days now and they look brutal. I called a friend of mine to complain and so she can tell me all about the support socks she had just a few short months ago with her pregnancy. As I am relying my story and how ugly I feel and fed up, she tells me she had her compression stockings prescribed by her doctor because she had varicose veins all over from the waist down. Now when I say all over, I mean ALL over, you know what I am saying right, even in the nether regions. Poor girl. She did recommend them though so I am off tomorrow to get them.
There have been many firsts with this pregnancy, and I am trying to keep my head on straight about it, to laugh it off knowing it's only for a season. I am telling myself to enjoy all these firsts because it probably is your last kick at the can.

5 comments:

WAUGDAI said...

Thanks for the chuckle girl... Compassion is not my strong suit eh? Oh boy, I mean, Oh girl - too funny! Be well in you're new stockings... oh even that makes me giggle too. oh I can just picture you too, do they have red & white stripes like Pippy? Oh do tell, no - post some pics!!! Please!!!

Bijoux said...

Sounds like a girl to me! The good news is, if you're anything like me, the extra water weight will come right off after the birth.

JodyJ said...

Waugdai- the mere thought of squishing my legs into a pair of too small compression stockings has me thinking I should just neglect my housework even more and elevate my feet a few hours a day.

Cocotte- I pray you are right. We have a new infra red/dry heat sauna at our gym, it's supposed to burn like 500 calroies for ever 20 min you sit in it. So... I'm thinking between nursing the baby, loss of sleep and hanging out in that sauna everyday I may even get to a better weight then when I started. One can only wish.

flutterby said...

Hey, girl. You make pregnancy sound like So. Much. Fun. :D Hang in there, it will all be over in a while. And just so you know, a cankle is the term for when your Calf blends right in to your Ankle.

:(

Elevating sounds like a good idea, and the socks might not be bad, either.

Miss ya!

WAUGDAI said...

Oh come now Jod - you know you want a red & white stripped pair! And with two little boys; you surely can't elevate your feet long enough! ;-) If I recall correctly (whispering) isn't his fav color red? Sexy sexy!

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